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What Have I Learned?

What Have I Learned?

My coaching company Dying to Live was founded in early 2020, soon after I became certified as a Professional Life Coach in late 2019. But my story doesn't begin there, and neither does my understanding of the human condition.

I have fought, cried, hurt, and struggled deeply to feel that my feet are planted above ground; to feel that I am alive; to realize that I'm not dead inside. I have worked hard, and put many hours into my own healing (therapy, coaching, self-study) to earn the inner strength and psychological freedom to enjoy being me, becoming a better person, and making improvements to my life along the way.

Despite breaking free from a personal history I thought inescapable, and despite studying psychology and psychoanalysis for almost a decade now, I've only learned one thing that matters: one's connection to oneself. You must show yourself that you're in it to win it; you must exercise patience, even in the depths of internal conflict; you must offer time and space to the ugliest, weakest, most sickly parts of yourself. You must show your "Self" that you are willing to extend love to it no matter what. And overtime, if you are sincere about it, your connection to your "Self" improves, and you feel greater levels of happiness, groundedness, and confidence.

But, it's not about outcomes. It's about the art of being and becoming who you truly are. That is the journey of a lifetime. It is your journey, and your lifetime!

My personal story is not special, and I do not enjoy flaunting it. You may learn some things about me during our sessions, but, firstly and lastly, this is about you.

My life, and my study of psychology, have taught me more than I can use for myself. I hope that you might benefit from it.

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